A few days ago, I was in the drug store trying to decide between two varieties of Pantene shampoo, when my brother Mike called my cell phone with the news that he is engaged to be married. I selected the clarifying formula, although I do not know what that word means when applied to shampoo. Everything in my life seemed particularly murky that day, and the transparent plastic bottle, like the raccoon I spotted later that night, promised elucidation.

I could not be happier for Mike. I adore Cate and am thrilled to have this connection with her.

I wonder what kind of shampoo she uses.